Long-Distance Online Relationships Aren’t So Great

 

 

 

Each day could be a struggle or a triumph.

It’s your choice. And if you happen to be in a long-distance online relationship, every day could feel like a struggle. Especially when you’ve never even met.

In the past, I’ve had a long-distance online relationship. It started on social media, so I know exactly how it feels to look forward to his call or text.

And when you do hear from him…Boom! Instant high. Until something happens and you wonder

Is this relationship good for me?

So many people say how distance makes the heart grow fonder. Well, that may be true but it’s not distance that ruins the relationship. It’s doubt.

3 reasons why long-distance online relationships
aren’t such a great idea:

 1.)      You never truly know the truth.

The person you’re talking to is a figment of your imagination because you don’t know who he really is. You only know what he lets you know.

2.)      You worry more often than you’re happy.

When you’re constantly thinking about some guy who lives 3000 miles away, you’re not really enjoying what you’re doing. You’re worrying about what he’s doing.

3.)      You put your love life on hold.

Love is holding his hand, hello hugs and kisses goodnight. When you don’t have those things, each day that passes means putting your love life on hold.

If a long-distance online relationship is what you want than you learn to live with the doubts, not with the love.

But…if you’re tired of living the fantasy and you want to know, will this relationship help me meet my goals, grab a copy of my new book.

Meet The Right Man: Finding Your Path To Love >> http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1503544656?keywords=meet%20the%20right%20man&qid=1445613238&ref_=sr_1_2&sr=8-2

We all have had those guys who, for one reason or another, keep us hoping and holding on.

If this is you, write a comment and tell me about it.

I’d like to hear from you.

 

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Kevin@CupidTools November 12, 2015 at 3:16 pm

I agree! Dating is supposed to be fun. Don’t make it your life mission to find Mr. Perfect within a month or else… This puts too much pressure on you and anyone you meet, making it impossible for you to fully enjoy the company of others and express your full personality. Dating can be stressful for both sides- he may be worried his choice of place won’t fit your expectations, while you will spend hours wondering what to wear to look sexy, but not trashy, the ever so elusive “golden middle”

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